Belonging Beyond Binaries?

Aleem Ali

CEO, Welcoming Australia

Institutional + Systems Design

"How can you fix an institution (or system) when it wasn't designed with you in mind?"

— Dr Kathomi Gatwiri

Who are we?

"Modern Australia and multicultural Australia are the same thing."

— Tony Burke MP

Social Cohesion

"The strength of relationships and sense of belonging within a society, where individuals and groups feel connected, valued and supported. It is characterised by mutual trust, inclusivity and a shared commitment to social stability and wellbeing."

— Office for Social Cohesion, Connections That Matter

Difference + Belonging

"When we are taught that safety always lies in sameness, then difference, of any kind, will appear as a threat. When we choose to love, we choose to move against fear - against alienation and separation. The choice to love is the choice to connect - to find ourselves in the other.”

— bell hooks

Binaries

Us vs Them

Left vs Right

Progressive vs Conservative

Socialist vs Capitalist

Goodies vs Baddies

QLD vs NSW

Young vs Old

'Woke' vs 'Deplorable'

Relational or Transactional?

Relational

welcome = join

include = stay

belong = contribute

Transactional

contribute welcome

stay include

join belong

Why do some cultures have Elders, but others have the elderly?

"Australia is facing a shortage of at least 110,000 direct aged-care workers within the next decade."

Foundational Principles

(Inherent) Dignity

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Belonging (for All)

Values

People over Productivity

Curiosity over Assumption

Conversation over Silencing

Creativity over Consumption

Kindness over Indifference

Courage over Complacency

Brave Conversations

Agree not to fight fire with fire

Be relentlessly inclusive

Know the facts, but share the stories

Pass the mic.

Share a vision worth striving for

Problem → Solution → Benefits

The Problem

Diversity enriches communities, but it can also create challenges. Without clear guidance, inclusion efforts falter, risking division and weakened social cohesion.

The Solution

Provide practical tools and build networks that empower communities to embed inclusion, creating welcoming spaces where everyone can thrive.

The Benefits

Welcoming cultures foster social connection, economic success, and a positive reputation, ultimately making communities stronger, fairer, and more inclusive.

Act Locally

“Complacency is the enemy of social cohesion”

— Jon Faine

Think Systemically

“If it is true that a chain is only as strong as its weakest link, isn't it also true a society is only as healthy as its sickest citizen and only as wealthy as its most deprived?”

— Maya Angelou

“Another world is not only possible, she is on her way. On a quiet day, I can hear her breathing.”

— Arundhati Roy

Hope is found in the Possible

Hope is found in Kindness

"... it is only kindness that makes sense anymore, only kindness that ties your shoes and sends you out into the day to gaze at bread, only kindness that raises its head from the crowd of the world to say It is I you have been looking for, and then goes with you everywhere like a shadow or a friend."

— Naomi Shihab Nye

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Belonging Beyond Binaries?

Aleem Ali

CEO, Welcoming Australia

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Institutional + Systems Design

"How can you fix an institution (or system) when it wasn't designed with you in mind?"

— Dr Kathomi Gatwiri

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Who are we?

"Modern Australia and multicultural Australia are the same thing."

— Tony Burke MP

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Social Cohesion

"The strength of relationships and sense of belonging within a society, where individuals and groups feel connected, valued and supported. It is characterised by mutual trust, inclusivity and a shared commitment to social stability and wellbeing."

— Office for Social Cohesion, Connections That Matter

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Difference + Belonging

"When we are taught that safety always lies in sameness, then difference, of any kind, will appear as a threat. When we choose to love, we choose to move against fear - against alienation and separation. The choice to love is the choice to connect - to find ourselves in the other.”

— bell hooks
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Binaries

Us vs Them

Left vs Right

Progressive vs Conservative

Socialist vs Capitalist

Goodies vs Baddies

QLD vs NSW

Young vs Old

'Woke' vs 'Deplorable'

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Relational or Transactional?

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Relational

welcome = join

include = stay

belong = contribute

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Transactional

contribute welcome

stay include

join belong

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Why do some cultures have Elders, but others have the elderly?

"Australia is facing a shortage of at least 110,000 direct aged-care workers within the next decade."

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Foundational Principles

(Inherent) Dignity

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Belonging (for All)

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Values

People over Productivity

Curiosity over Assumption

Conversation over Silencing

Creativity over Consumption

Kindness over Indifference

Courage over Complacency

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Brave Conversations

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Agree not to fight fire with fire

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Be relentlessly inclusive

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Know the facts, but share the stories

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Pass the mic.

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Share a vision worth striving for

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Problem → Solution → Benefits

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The Problem

Diversity enriches communities, but it can also create challenges. Without clear guidance, inclusion efforts falter, risking division and weakened social cohesion.

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The Solution

Provide practical tools and build networks that empower communities to embed inclusion, creating welcoming spaces where everyone can thrive.

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The Benefits

Welcoming cultures foster social connection, economic success, and a positive reputation, ultimately making communities stronger, fairer, and more inclusive.

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Act Locally

“Complacency is the enemy of social cohesion”

— Jon Faine

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Think Systemically

“If it is true that a chain is only as strong as its weakest link, isn't it also true a society is only as healthy as its sickest citizen and only as wealthy as its most deprived?”

— Maya Angelou

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“Another world is not only possible, she is on her way. On a quiet day, I can hear her breathing.”

— Arundhati Roy

Hope is found in the Possible

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Hope is found in Kindness

"... it is only kindness that makes sense anymore, only kindness that ties your shoes and sends you out into the day to gaze at bread, only kindness that raises its head from the crowd of the world to say It is I you have been looking for, and then goes with you everywhere like a shadow or a friend."

— Naomi Shihab Nye